25 yrs old...one of my boss say now is the time to find a man and settle down...but wad if i dun wan to settle down? why shld i follow wad everyone do? why shld i go with the flow? why do we have to restrict ourselves to wad the society expects of us? who are u to tell me wad to do? i hate it when ppl tell me i HAVE to start finding someone. why do i need someone to depend on? can't i depend on myself? argh. i refuse.